Elders have a long list of complex rules for so-called 'gross sins'. Big boy of all naughties is 'apostasy' i.e. daring not to swallow all the illogical, changing, prejudiced ideas of the grey men in Brooklyn - never question - ever.
In all of this controlling framweork there exists an opportunity to use the rules in your favour i.e. know the rules, play the 'game' and stick to your plan - no matter what.
The elders 'Pay Attention' book (or manual) says about apostasy, "Persons who deliberately spread (stubbornly hold to and speak about) teachings contrary to Bible truth as taught by Jehovah's Witnesses are apostates" - italics mine! - ks91 p94
If 2 elders hear you question any teaching of the FDS, they can move to JC quicker than you can say 'Freddie Franz'. The manual gives the instruction to do this.
So previous advice to be vague, non-specific etc is good. NEVER question FDS teachings in front of the elders or those who will report you.
They win if they DF you, since they then have more power over any family members that are still in - in other words, they can more easily get to you.
You win if you manage the situation, use their (man-made) rules in your favour and just fade.
If you are brought up before a JC there are 6 questions / issues the elders will ask to judge 'repentance'. If you give convincing answers to these it will be much more difficult for them to DF you and you may then fade following a private or public reproof - this is contingency if it ever gets as far as a JC.
The questions / issues are:
1) Have you contritely prayed to Jeh and sought his forgiveness and mercy?
2) Have you admitted the wrongdoing? - preferably voluntarily to an elder before the JC
3) Express willingness to make restitution / apologise to any effected by your 'sin' - really strong if this is done before a JC
4) Show 'heartfelt godly sadness' i.e. convince them your primary concern is not your own neck, but the cong, org, Jeh etc.
5) Talk loads about your damaged relationship with Jeh, repraoch on his name and your longing to come back to his favour
6) Say that you totally reject the previous course (i.e. apostasy or doubts) and find it repugnant now you have come to your senses, prayed etc.
Of course, it takes balls to go through this stuff if you have to, but it's worth considering as a contingency if you're in the last chance saloon and you want to use the 'rules' to minimise damage to you and your family.
Not every one wants to do this, but it's worth knowing the rules of this cult so that you can make an informed decision on how you want to plan your fade.
Hope that helps and best wishes.
EE